The Temporary Girlfriend. Redefined.
"Out Beyond ideas of wrong doing
And right doing, there is a field;
I'll meet you there"- Rumi
And right doing, there is a field;
I'll meet you there"- Rumi
THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT SECTION: Pay attention! *grin*
With the increased exposure of paid personal companionship in the media and internet..there has been a plethora of misperceptions and generalizations made. I have
put in some Frequently Asked Questions that i hope will assist in defining exactly what I am about..how to meet me etc. and smooth out the process.
Some Basic FAQ's"
What is Your Schedule/Availability? You know what? ..I really dont' have a "schedule" per se.. although many of the internet boards tend to push advertisers to announce one. I like to arrange my trysts one-on-one at a time that is good for both of us. I LOVE prebooking. What that means to me is the day ahead. When I AM available or announce when..a 1-2 hour notice is always best to meet. . Advance planning really rocks in my book and assures that we can arrange a time that works for both of us. It's truly not that difficult. Please remember..this is not a full-time
"profession" for me and I am far from a high volume girl. I may only date once or twice a week..and that being said...I adore the stolen time away and love to take my time!
I've experimented with posting a set time..but it has backfired in the type of gentleman that has approached me when I have done so...and very few have had their ducks put together in regards to verification info to be able to pull it off...
I travel for my real life profession...and involved with a start-up entrepreneurial venture with a company...in addition to training for long-distance endurance sports. I DO have time..but you will rarely find me in a lack of motion just "hanging around waiting for calls".
What Do You Require For Verification? How Do You Verify? What if I am new and do not have references? Simply put.. there are many different ways..and all highly discreet.
I do not need to talk to someone from your work place..and sometimes i can verify a newbie without needing references. The only references useful to me are well-known reviewed providers. P411 with provider OK's is acceptable.
The one absolute is that i will not see anyone anonymously. That is risky, foolish and above all I owe it to my few friends that see me..to provider a safe atmosphere..and that means not seeing just anyone who emails..or taking risks that may endanger anyone connected to me.
About your Information: I keep absolutely no records and have no desire to...my friends tend to be regular and I keep to a very small core of clientele. It will be handled with the uptmost respect and discretion. I am 100% independant...so all is handled by me..no one else..no phone assistant, no agency employees. This is the highest level of discretion I believe. I am a discreet person by nature and in return I ask for the same from you.
DISCRETION MEANS BETWEEN YOU AND I with the assurance through set up systems of maintaining your confidentiality...our personal arrangements never "getting out" into the public realm and assurance that I maintain a strict standard in only seeing those that will not mean harm. I have not gained such a wonderful reputation for a plethora of indiscretions...
IT DOES NOT MEAN that you do not share basic identifying information with ME..or walk through the door of my private place with me not knowing who is doing so. I am not a risk-taker..and do not like to be in the company of guys who do so. If a provider sees you with a lack of screening.. there is typically a reason why..and a HUGE risk for all involved with her. Any notable media snaffu's you may have read about ..all seemed to stem from that type of shoddy practices. I maintain a highly confidential Low volume safe haven for those that step forward...it's truly just like having a good friend over!
I will not see anyone that I am unable to verify to my comfort level.
That being said..let me outline what is NOT SEXY in contacting me:
Lewd, vulgar or graphic emails. or contain sexual explicitness or refer to illegal services. This is not an offer for prostitution, and you are simply paying for my time and companionship. What we decide in our time together is simply between us as two consenting adults and not contracted for.
Emails which are one-liners and do not show me your personality. Please do not write to me using juvenile abbreviations ("texting language such as "UR" for "You are" or "Your".) Good first impressions go a long way with me. or "got pics? rates"..etc.
Signing your name as an initial on the first intro (example "D"..or some queer "board name" ) ...Seriously, playing James Bond is not sexy....Now being Daniel Craig or Sean Connery..yummo!
Simply Being "curious": I get many emails saying "I'm curious, tell me more"..with no intention of being a gentleman who is serious about finding a companion. I am a busy girl, I do not have time to entertain 15 year olds playing with computers in their mother's basements or "talk someone into seeing me".. Either you are a decisive man..or a dweeb. I'll commit my time to those who know they want to see me... Decisiveness is Sexy.
If you have further questions or if there is an extra need for discretion (perhaps above and beyond the typical executive) in your personal situation...please email me. This does not mean an anonymous meeting..but for details pertaining to "my cover"..possible paparazzi encounters.or .anything out of the norm that we need to prepare for. Ultimate professionalism and discretion is key for the gentlemen I typically meet. I am very well-experienced in these situations.
If we meet in public for dinner/drinks on our date.., please place my consideration in a gift card marked neatly tucked inside a gift bag, book, or magazine. I am not fond of plain white envelopes handed to me in a public place. It looks terribly obvious, is not discreet , may raise eyebrows and I consider that offensive.
If we meet in private at your place or mine, simply place within sight, unencumbered by an envelope within the first moments of our meeting, so that we may relax and go onto to more interesting endeavors!
Phew! All of that put aside!.. I simply need for your to introduce yourself properly.. I'd love to know more about you!
1. Your Full Name: (no ..no "alias" or"nicknames"( ie: my name is "john") or anything goofy..silly!) If you are queesy about putting it in email. no worries. Let me verify you through references first.then we'll speak by phone to cover the rest. I put up barriers to keep the Bad Guys out..not scare the heck out of the good sexy guys!
Note: I do check ID. No "posers" (don't want to give me your name? and want to meet with me or come over to my place completely anonymously? Sure! with a couple of valid provider references..we may still be able to meet.. but you need to DOUBLE my hourly fee! Goodie for me!! *grin*..and no..I am not kidding.)
2. reference info (please include their websites and a note on how they will remember you..) I've had gents give their refs a "heads up" which is soo sweet and greatly helps the process.
. If you have not dated in a while.: .please let me know this but also who you had seen in the past...even if they are not current..if it is a lady whom I am familiar with..it may be a great door opener for ease! )
IF YOU ARE COMPLTELY NEW: please let me know this too... I can lead you through relatively painlessly and easily. I'm not too scary!
3. Details on when and where you'd like to meet with me..date/time/location
4.How long you'd like to spend with me..
Then in my response..I'll forward over my number (hopefully, you've already given me yours with appropriate discreet times to reach you) so that we may connect in a much more personable fashion and ensure compatibility!
TO EMAIL: MelindaMadison@gmail.com
Follow Me on Twitter for Last Minute Stuff/Musings///etc.
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With the increased exposure of paid personal companionship in the media and internet..there has been a plethora of misperceptions and generalizations made. I have
put in some Frequently Asked Questions that i hope will assist in defining exactly what I am about..how to meet me etc. and smooth out the process.
Some Basic FAQ's"
What is Your Schedule/Availability? You know what? ..I really dont' have a "schedule" per se.. although many of the internet boards tend to push advertisers to announce one. I like to arrange my trysts one-on-one at a time that is good for both of us. I LOVE prebooking. What that means to me is the day ahead. When I AM available or announce when..a 1-2 hour notice is always best to meet. . Advance planning really rocks in my book and assures that we can arrange a time that works for both of us. It's truly not that difficult. Please remember..this is not a full-time
"profession" for me and I am far from a high volume girl. I may only date once or twice a week..and that being said...I adore the stolen time away and love to take my time!
I've experimented with posting a set time..but it has backfired in the type of gentleman that has approached me when I have done so...and very few have had their ducks put together in regards to verification info to be able to pull it off...
I travel for my real life profession...and involved with a start-up entrepreneurial venture with a company...in addition to training for long-distance endurance sports. I DO have time..but you will rarely find me in a lack of motion just "hanging around waiting for calls".
What Do You Require For Verification? How Do You Verify? What if I am new and do not have references? Simply put.. there are many different ways..and all highly discreet.
I do not need to talk to someone from your work place..and sometimes i can verify a newbie without needing references. The only references useful to me are well-known reviewed providers. P411 with provider OK's is acceptable.
The one absolute is that i will not see anyone anonymously. That is risky, foolish and above all I owe it to my few friends that see me..to provider a safe atmosphere..and that means not seeing just anyone who emails..or taking risks that may endanger anyone connected to me.
About your Information: I keep absolutely no records and have no desire to...my friends tend to be regular and I keep to a very small core of clientele. It will be handled with the uptmost respect and discretion. I am 100% independant...so all is handled by me..no one else..no phone assistant, no agency employees. This is the highest level of discretion I believe. I am a discreet person by nature and in return I ask for the same from you.
DISCRETION MEANS BETWEEN YOU AND I with the assurance through set up systems of maintaining your confidentiality...our personal arrangements never "getting out" into the public realm and assurance that I maintain a strict standard in only seeing those that will not mean harm. I have not gained such a wonderful reputation for a plethora of indiscretions...
IT DOES NOT MEAN that you do not share basic identifying information with ME..or walk through the door of my private place with me not knowing who is doing so. I am not a risk-taker..and do not like to be in the company of guys who do so. If a provider sees you with a lack of screening.. there is typically a reason why..and a HUGE risk for all involved with her. Any notable media snaffu's you may have read about ..all seemed to stem from that type of shoddy practices. I maintain a highly confidential Low volume safe haven for those that step forward...it's truly just like having a good friend over!
I will not see anyone that I am unable to verify to my comfort level.
That being said..let me outline what is NOT SEXY in contacting me:
Lewd, vulgar or graphic emails. or contain sexual explicitness or refer to illegal services. This is not an offer for prostitution, and you are simply paying for my time and companionship. What we decide in our time together is simply between us as two consenting adults and not contracted for.
Emails which are one-liners and do not show me your personality. Please do not write to me using juvenile abbreviations ("texting language such as "UR" for "You are" or "Your".) Good first impressions go a long way with me. or "got pics? rates"..etc.
Signing your name as an initial on the first intro (example "D"..or some queer "board name" ) ...Seriously, playing James Bond is not sexy....Now being Daniel Craig or Sean Connery..yummo!
Simply Being "curious": I get many emails saying "I'm curious, tell me more"..with no intention of being a gentleman who is serious about finding a companion. I am a busy girl, I do not have time to entertain 15 year olds playing with computers in their mother's basements or "talk someone into seeing me".. Either you are a decisive man..or a dweeb. I'll commit my time to those who know they want to see me... Decisiveness is Sexy.
If you have further questions or if there is an extra need for discretion (perhaps above and beyond the typical executive) in your personal situation...please email me. This does not mean an anonymous meeting..but for details pertaining to "my cover"..possible paparazzi encounters.or .anything out of the norm that we need to prepare for. Ultimate professionalism and discretion is key for the gentlemen I typically meet. I am very well-experienced in these situations.
If we meet in public for dinner/drinks on our date.., please place my consideration in a gift card marked neatly tucked inside a gift bag, book, or magazine. I am not fond of plain white envelopes handed to me in a public place. It looks terribly obvious, is not discreet , may raise eyebrows and I consider that offensive.
If we meet in private at your place or mine, simply place within sight, unencumbered by an envelope within the first moments of our meeting, so that we may relax and go onto to more interesting endeavors!
Phew! All of that put aside!.. I simply need for your to introduce yourself properly.. I'd love to know more about you!
1. Your Full Name: (no ..no "alias" or"nicknames"( ie: my name is "john") or anything goofy..silly!) If you are queesy about putting it in email. no worries. Let me verify you through references first.then we'll speak by phone to cover the rest. I put up barriers to keep the Bad Guys out..not scare the heck out of the good sexy guys!
Note: I do check ID. No "posers" (don't want to give me your name? and want to meet with me or come over to my place completely anonymously? Sure! with a couple of valid provider references..we may still be able to meet.. but you need to DOUBLE my hourly fee! Goodie for me!! *grin*..and no..I am not kidding.)
2. reference info (please include their websites and a note on how they will remember you..) I've had gents give their refs a "heads up" which is soo sweet and greatly helps the process.
. If you have not dated in a while.: .please let me know this but also who you had seen in the past...even if they are not current..if it is a lady whom I am familiar with..it may be a great door opener for ease! )
IF YOU ARE COMPLTELY NEW: please let me know this too... I can lead you through relatively painlessly and easily. I'm not too scary!
3. Details on when and where you'd like to meet with me..date/time/location
4.How long you'd like to spend with me..
Then in my response..I'll forward over my number (hopefully, you've already given me yours with appropriate discreet times to reach you) so that we may connect in a much more personable fashion and ensure compatibility!
TO EMAIL: MelindaMadison@gmail.com
Follow Me on Twitter for Last Minute Stuff/Musings///etc.
www.twitter.com/melindamadison